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28-Jul-2017 22:07

(One 22-year-old reality-show contestant famously declared she’d rather “weep in a BMW than laugh on the back seat of a bicycle”.) Skewed birth rates have further fuelled the fight for a wife – thanks to the government’s one-child policy, more boys than girls are born annually, and by 2020 it’s estimated that China will have 24 million surplus bachelors.

Most of these unmarried men live in the impoverished countryside – but even the super wealthy sometimes struggle to find wives, and increasingly they are turning to China’s booming matchmaking industry.

But it's that middle part, the conducting of relationships under the gaze of social media, specifically Instagram, that routinely stirs up trouble.

The problem is that proper Instagram etiquette has a pretty broad definition depending on who you are talking to, so what is perfectly acceptable to one person can be fairly offensive to another.

She takes a deep breath, turns her back to the pool, and falls into their arms with a splash. Waiting in the shade of the palm trees is a row of women in similarly skimpy swimwear. They have every right to be anxious: there’s a lot at stake.

Today’s poolside game is an icebreaker at a matchmaking weekend for millionaires at a luxury resort, and while most of the dozen girls have been selected following a six-month nationwide search, the 10 men have each paid 100,000 yuan (over £10,000) to attend. “I’m single and my family is urging me to get married,” says Ruby, 28, the woman in the fuchsia bikini.

It’s true that to make a wish come true one has to dream about it and believe this is going to happen.

Someone who is very responsible.” Although too polite to say it, Ruby is also looking for someone rich.

But for those of us in the meaty part of the curve, here are some basic guidelines that it may be wise to stick to: Don't post photos of each other on Instagram until you are officially dating.

I realize that there may be occasional incidental 'graming of the person you are dating should you find yourselves in a group event, so that's not really anything to worry about.

The photos that others took and then posted on Facebook told a different story.

I struggled to identify the blonde with the muffin-top and then horror hit as I recognized the backside of my own teal swimsuit.

Someone who is very responsible.” Although too polite to say it, Ruby is also looking for someone rich.But for those of us in the meaty part of the curve, here are some basic guidelines that it may be wise to stick to: Don't post photos of each other on Instagram until you are officially dating.I realize that there may be occasional incidental 'graming of the person you are dating should you find yourselves in a group event, so that's not really anything to worry about.The photos that others took and then posted on Facebook told a different story.I struggled to identify the blonde with the muffin-top and then horror hit as I recognized the backside of my own teal swimsuit.When you stop to think about it, it's kind of amazing how deeply social media has embedded itself into the fabric of modern dating.